i don't want my mom to be tied up. knowing she had a history of pulling tubes she needed out.really ,so how do you think with 6 other patients i'm suppose to prevent her from pulling out necessary, needed tubes. critical tubes that i cant reinsert. tubes that a doctor is required to insert. how bout one of the three of the kids she has stays with her and watches her? how bout that? no thats too much to ask of these soooooo concerned kids. kids that have their mother in a nursing home, kids that have permitted an elective surgery on a 83 years old woman. ridiculous. these people need to have their heads examined. i'm not a magician if she pulls any of her tubes out and the doctor is going to have to reinsert theres the cost, the insult to the patient and the rath of the doctor against me. i'm tired of people thinking hospital staff can do the unimaginable. people use your heads. you cant imagine how bad the staff talk about you behind your back. if i didn't get fired trust me i would for sure tell you what i think. between the three kids really not one of you could devote your night to staying with your mother and at the very least making sure she doesn't pull anything out? how about comforting her giving her some support for what you put her through. people make me sick. end of the night she didn't pull anything out but did at one point did  disconnect a tube. stomach juice all over bed needing a bed change. thats ok at least nothing was pulled.